Frugal Clothing

This weekend I was in dire need of some new clothes. My body is going through some weird change, probably because of my new workout routine and change in eating habits. I was down to one pair of shorts and three shirts to last me the entire summer season. Not good...especially when ninety-percent of all we do is outside and I have a toddler and a kindergartner who think my clothes are napkins!

I decided to go to a local thrift store, in a community that is wealthy. I was amazed by what I found. I got a pair of shorts, capris, and a dress all for under $9.00. The items were all namebrand and in great condition. Each memmber of my family got multiple items of clothing, we spent $24.00 all together.

There are some keys I have found for buying new to you clothing and getting the most for your time and money.

1. Choose a community or town that is wealthier or known for it's fashion.

2. Don't be ashamed, you are getting a bargain for new clothing.

3. Find clothes that fit you today, not that you may fit into when you lose five pounds. That is not spending your money wisely.

4. Check for holes, snags, stains, etc. on each item. Yes, it may only be $3.00, but that is $3.00 that will turn into more or go to waste if you settle.

5. Set a limit before you go shopping. It is very easy to say "this is only $2.00", "this is $3.00" and then you will nickle and dime yourself into a bind. The key is to save money.

You can find garage sales in your local newspaper or classifieds the week before the sales. Mark out a route, get up early, and make a morning of it. I enjoy making it a family event, but if you would prefer to make it a "me-time" morning, that would be fun also.

Have fun shopping!
- Rebecca

You are beautiful

Last night I went to a Luau themed party. As I was getting ready to go, and looking might cute I might add, I couldn't help but think of my self-confidence.

As moms we have quirks with our body's that we did not have before we were moms. Our once perky breasts may resemble more of a deflated punching ball after breastfeeding our children. The tummy that we used to strut around in our bikini has become the victim of stretch marks and scars that is neatly hidden behind a tankini. Oh yes, and the showers that we used to be allowed to take for an hour indulging ourselves in exfoliating, shaving, and cleaning has now been narrowed down to the bare necessity of the day....usually depending on if we're going to sleep in shorts or not that night! All in good humor, our bodies have taken a beating for our children. Naturally our confidence will sag...along with some other things!

Take time today to accentuate the good things. I feel I have a very attractive shoulder and upper chest area. I accentuate this with halters and necklaces. If you have awesome calves, bring attention to those with bermuda shorts or a length of skirt that accentuates the calf.

Take time to paint your toenails, buy a quick drying polish so you don't have to wait for it to dry. Find a hairstyle that is attractive on you and is easily styled.

As silly as it may sound and feel, tell yourself in the mirror each morning "I am beautiful, I am loved, I am sexy, and I am one hot mama!" then go confidently about your day!!

XOXO,
Rebecca